Monday, August 9, 2010

The rights for both,husband & wife in Islam

Both,wife & husband have rights in Islam.
To have a successful marriage,we need to follow those tips.


  • Wife's Basic Rights :
  1. Respect her and pay attention to her needs
  2. It is obligatory for husbands to spend on their wives
  3. He cannot order her to do anything that is against religion
  4. He must not dwell on what he dislikes in his wife, but on what he likes
  5. The husband is not to stay away from his wife or keep his wife in a state of suspense
  6. Caring for one's wife's sexual fulfillment is an obligation of religion
  7. Not harming one’s wife,because harming others is haraam in the case of strangers, it is even more so in the case of harming one’s wife
  8. never ever divulge the secrets of the household and those of the married couple
  9. He doesn't look at other women
  10. He advise & helps her to follow Allah's orders


  • Husband's Basic Rights :
  1. The obligation of obedience.He shall be respected & obeyed.
  2. Wife must be available for her husband, he should be able to enjoy her (physically)
  3. Not admitting anyone whom the husband dislikes
  4. Respect his family & treat them well
  5. She does not disclose her husband’s secrets, and does not talk to anyone about whatever secrets and other matters there may be between him and her
  6. Helps him to Obey Allah
  7. Make herself beautiful for him
  8. Greeting him with joy as soon as he comes home
  9. She doesn't look at other men
  10. She take care of their children & house


Maybe you are wondering , why do Muslims get divorced if they have those rights in marriage?


well,people make mistakes,but that doesn't mean that Islam is wrong...we sometimes get stressed & forget some of those rights,like having a bad day with the kids,& forget to welcome your husband...or being stressed due to financial problems & forget to kiss her when coming back home from work..at the end,we are humans...








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Islam is peace

I thought it would be nice to view a real Muslim...not as mentioned in the news...I would like to tell you about us,how we deal with people,what are our actions,




Islam is peace

Islam is peace