Both,wife & husband have rights in Islam.
To have a successful marriage,we need to follow those tips.
Maybe you are wondering , why do Muslims get divorced if they have those rights in marriage?
well,people make mistakes,but that doesn't mean that Islam is wrong...we sometimes get stressed & forget some of those rights,like having a bad day with the kids,& forget to welcome your husband...or being stressed due to financial problems & forget to kiss her when coming back home from work..at the end,we are humans...
To have a successful marriage,we need to follow those tips.
- Wife's Basic Rights :
- Respect her and pay attention to her needs
- It is obligatory for husbands to spend on their wives
- He cannot order her to do anything that is against religion
- He must not dwell on what he dislikes in his wife, but on what he likes
- The husband is not to stay away from his wife or keep his wife in a state of suspense
- Caring for one's wife's sexual fulfillment is an obligation of religion
- Not harming one’s wife,because harming others is haraam in the case of strangers, it is even more so in the case of harming one’s wife
- never ever divulge the secrets of the household and those of the married couple
- He doesn't look at other women
- He advise & helps her to follow Allah's orders
- Husband's Basic Rights :
- The obligation of obedience.He shall be respected & obeyed.
- Wife must be available for her husband, he should be able to enjoy her (physically)
- Not admitting anyone whom the husband dislikes
- Respect his family & treat them well
- She does not disclose her husband’s secrets, and does not talk to anyone about whatever secrets and other matters there may be between him and her
- Helps him to Obey Allah
- Make herself beautiful for him
- Greeting him with joy as soon as he comes home
- She doesn't look at other men
- She take care of their children & house
Maybe you are wondering , why do Muslims get divorced if they have those rights in marriage?
well,people make mistakes,but that doesn't mean that Islam is wrong...we sometimes get stressed & forget some of those rights,like having a bad day with the kids,& forget to welcome your husband...or being stressed due to financial problems & forget to kiss her when coming back home from work..at the end,we are humans...
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