Why did you said that??How come you acted that way!! Why would you ever do such a thing???This is wrong,this is very wrong,whats your problem??Did you used your mind before you said that!!!It looks like you didn't view your image in the mirror before you left the house!
Sometimes i hear myself yelling in their faces,but i remember the Qur'an.Allah says in Surat Aal-i-Imraa: "So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]".(Aal-i-Imraan 3:159)
I try so hard not to give them an attitude,not to critisize them back,and to accept what they say as a kind of advise.This is called the art of dealing with people and gaining their love and trust.I read a book called Enjoy your life - the link for that book is attached in my blogger home page-in which the writer provide us with many ways to gain people's love.
Sometimes i hear myself yelling in their faces,but i remember the Qur'an.Allah says in Surat Aal-i-Imraa: "So by mercy from Allah, [O Muhammad], you were lenient with them. And if you had been rude [in speech] and harsh in heart, they would have disbanded from about you. So pardon them and ask forgiveness for them and consult them in the matter. And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him]".(Aal-i-Imraan 3:159)
I try so hard not to give them an attitude,not to critisize them back,and to accept what they say as a kind of advise.This is called the art of dealing with people and gaining their love and trust.I read a book called Enjoy your life - the link for that book is attached in my blogger home page-in which the writer provide us with many ways to gain people's love.
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