Tuesday, May 10, 2011

The phases of human development...indeed it's the truth



" And indeed We created man (Adam) out of an extract of clay (water and earth). (12) Thereafter We made him (the offspring of Adam) as a Nutfah (mixed drops of the male and female sexual discharge and lodged it) in a safe lodging (womb of the woman). (13) Then We made the Nutfah into a clot (a piece of thick coagulated blood), then We made the clot into a little lump of flesh, then We made out of that little lump of flesh bones, then We clothed the bones with flesh, and then We brought it forth as another creation. So Blessed is Allâh, the Best of creators " Quran, 23:12-14
Professor Keith Moore is a worldwide reputable acientist in the field of anatomy and embryology and author of "The Developing Human"that was translated to eight different languages.He was asked to give his opinionabout some Quranic verses and Prophetic Hadith that concern his line of specialty from a scientific point of view.He was quite surprised when he heard these Quranic verses and Prophetic Hadith and said :"How could Prophet Muhammad come up with these phases of embryonic development fourteen hundred years ago when science only discovered them 30 years ago?".

I read that article and thought of sharing a part of it with you.

Sunday, May 1, 2011

My daily life as a Muslim Lady..what a busy life!!Buzzzzzzzzzzz

Being a Muslim, I believe that Allah will hold me responsible for my actions on Judgment Day. Mentioned below is my daily schedual, it may change a little in weekends or summer vocation, but it will still have the main aspects.


My day goes like this:



• I wake up for Morning Prayer at 4:30AM, wash and pray, then go back to sleep.

• Wake up again at 7:00AM,usually my baby girl wake up at that time, so I give her a bath, get her dressed, and call my other two kids, asking them to get ready for school.

• Eventually, my two kids get ready to school. Until it is time for them to leave, I start cleaning and organizing the house. While they walk outside the door, I pray for Allah to keep them safe as Allah never waste any deposits.

• I get a cup of coffee while I go online and take my French class. My baby girl plays around while I am studying.

• I wash and pray AL Doha Prayer.

• Get dressed at almost 9:30AM and do the grocery.

• Come back home at 11:00 AM and start preparing launch.

• By 12PM, I pray Al Duhor Prayer and go downstairs to pick my kids up.

• Give my kids a bath as soon as they walk inside the house and get them dressed. I teach English, so it should be the time for the student to arrive and get the lesson. I teach her for 45 minutes. My kids sit next to me and listen carefully with joy.

• It is 1:00 PM now and the kids are feeling hungry, so I go back to the kitchen and make sure that launch is ready. By 1:30PM, they start having launch.

• The house is a disaster after launch, so I ask them to go inside their room for half an hour, they take their younger sister and play inside while I rinse the dishes and floor, rube the oven, and clean the dust.

• By 3:00PM, I pray Al Aser then ask my kids weither they like to stay home and play or go out to the park- it also depends on the weather, we usually stay home if it is so hot or dusty-so they may choose going out. We start doing school homework and play a little.

• By 4:30PM, they eat a snack and get ready to go outside for having fun, so we walk to the park, get some ice cream, meet some neighbors in the park and let the kids play.

• We walk back home at 6:00PM.They washes their feet, hands, and face. Put on their Pajamas on. I wash and pray Magrib. Dinner is prepared at that time. They can watch TV while having dinner. Afterward, we sit together and read Quran for 20 minute.

• By 7:30PM, they brush their teeth and get ready to go for bed. It is story time, so I read them a story and some Quran. Wish them lovely dreams and walk outside the room with my baby girl.

• Isha prayer has come by that time, so I pray Isha.

• My husband comes home and gets his launch.

• We sit together and watch TV for a while. My baby girl feels sleepy so I put her in bed around 8:30 - 9:00PM.

• I do the dishes once more, and clean the bathrooms. Make sure the house is organized. I sit with my husband and hold either a book or my laptop.

• Go to bed and fix my Alarm for morning pray.

• Usually I wake up at 2:00AM to pray night prayers-which is confirmed Sunnah.Go back to sleep after half an hour.

****This is my normal day without having guests or going out with my husband. It usually changes in case of circumstances.



Islam combines both;spirituale and materail aspects of life.

    It is normal to see believers of a certain principle testifying to it.However,to find others stand in appreciation for such a principle and verify it is a proof of its superiority and highness.Allah said :(And those who have been given the knowledge which was sent down to you from your lord see thyat it is the truth).
  • I.S.Wrestler ; He is a contemporary French researcher and lecturer at Islamic institute in Paris.He wrote : "Islam endeavors to relieve misery, cruelty, superstitions, and help the weak and needy people. It commendsbenevolence and mercy. In its legislations, it sets rules for even the minor details regarding every day dealings, it also organizes contracts and inheritance.

  • Thomas Carlyle ; He is a well known English writer who was found of heroism and traced heroes on different fields. He wrote a book entitled "Heroes" with a whole section on prophet Muhammad PBUH.

  • Hanutu ; The former French Minister of Foreign Affairs said: Islamhas crossed and spread thoughout all the boundaries of this earth. It is the only religion which people strongly tend to embrace unlike other religions.

  • Dr.Sydney Fisher ; He is a history lecturer at Ohio University (USA) and has conducted many studies about matters related to Eastern countries,he said :" The Qur'an is a book of education and culture and is not confined only to religious duties and obligations.The virtues that Islam calls Muslims to are among the best and highly valued regarding ethics and morals".

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Does not interfere with none of your business


Once, a woman came over to my house, it was the first time we meet. After offering her a cup of coffee, she started asking me questions; how much is my husband's salary, how long has my coaches been used before I bought them, do I go along with my mother in law!!!
People kill me when they ask so much about everything, all the details, although it is obvious that you do not want to talk about these subjects with them.

I try not to be rude, so I answer shortly or changes the subject somehow.


The Prophet said, “From the excellence of one’s Islam is to
leave that which does not concern him.”
One of the best ways of dealing with such intruders is by responding to a question by another question, or changing the topic altogether, thereby making him forget the question he asked. For example, if he were to ask you, “How much monthly salary do you make?” you could reply jokingly with a smile, “Why do you ask? Have you found a luring job for me?” If he says, “Not really, I just wanted to know”, you could say, “Salaries these days are a great problem. It seems to be caused by high oil prices!” He might then say, “Well, what do oil prices have to do with salaries?”

You could then say, “Oil prices are what determine other prices. Don’t you see that wars happen because of it?” He may say, “No. That is not true. There are other reasons for wars. The world is full of wars nowadays…” Thus, he would forget about his initial question.



Sunday, April 3, 2011

mama,Forgive me

I had a period in my life in which I never obeyed mama or even listened to her advise...I acted as if she wasn't there...I pushed her to the limit...My friends meant everything to me in that time, they were my priority-but guess what, I never stopped praying or fasting, I just felt like hanging out with my friends all the time.


I do cry a lot for these days...I cry because I made my LOVELY MAM cry...when I look back at these actions now, I feel like those were night mares, How could I? Off course, my Mama forgives me, but she still cries when she remembers those days. I know one thing; Time repeats itself, meaning my daughter will act that way one day.

I did ask for her forgiveness repeatedly, and I still do. I regret a lot, cry a lot, and pray for Allah to forgive me.



• Allah (Glory and Greatness be to Him) mentions in Noble Qur'an:"And your Lord has commanded that you shall not serve (any) but Him, and goodness to your parents. If either or both of them reach old age with you, say not to them (so much as) "Ugh" nor chide them, and speak to them a generous word. And make yourself submissively gentle to them with compassion, and say: O my Lord! Have compassion on them, as they brought me up (when I was) little." Noble Qur'an (17:23-24)



• The Holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) says: "Beware! Abstain from angering the parents. The fragrance of Paradise is perceived even at a distance of a thousand years, but those who are disobedient to parents and those who cut off ties with relatives will not be able to smell it."



• Allah (Glory and Greatness be to Him) says in Hadith al-Qudsi: I swear by My Glory and power that if a (child who is) disobedient to his parents comes to me with all the good deeds of all the prophets; I will not accept them from him

I want to share this song with everyone

I just wanna share this song with everyone,it really made me cry..
It is translated in English

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQAKF8rMsG0

Friday, April 1, 2011

Due to pair of SOCKS, she got divorced

She called me with tears in her eyes, I asked her why does she sounds sad, and so she replied that she had just got divorced. I felt goose bumps and felt like crying. The have three kids, the older is 6 years old and the youngest is a year and half old.



Next day, I went to check on her, I heard that it all started with a pair of socks. He came back home at the evening, she asked him to take her out to get a pair of socks for her daughter-she has a party to attend and needs a pair of socks to match her dress. He started yelling and she yelled back, so he slapped her. She got her Abaih and veil on, walked toward the door, planning to leave the house, so he yielded telling her not to leave the house and if she did so, she will be divorced. Both of them were stressed out and Satan was doing his best, so she did not care and walked out the door. That is it! She got divorced!

It has been a week and she already feels so lost without him. The kids are driving her crazy, she is left all alone at home with her kids - By the way, it is her 2nd time to get divorced, so he had to leave the house, they can't stay together.



I did advise her not to rush and to look for the good qualities in her husband.



The devil, which is the enemy of Allah, is pleased when you are angry or act foolishly; he reminds us of divorce all the time. It is narrated in the Hadith: "Satan places his throne upon water; then sends detachments (for creating dissension); one of them comes and says: I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between him and his father or between him and his mother or his brothers. Then he (Satan) says: you did nothing. They will make up with one another. Another one comes and says: I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between him and his wife. The Satan goes near him and says : 'You have done well. And He then embraces him and says: You are so and so." [5] Satan is pleased with the breaking up of the family and its destruction.



Islam is peace

I thought it would be nice to view a real Muslim...not as mentioned in the news...I would like to tell you about us,how we deal with people,what are our actions,




Islam is peace

Islam is peace